All of us like to hate on the twin flame runner.
The runner that runs away from true love.
Why can't the runner see how good he/she has got it?
We hate and debate on this poor soul, so much. It is rarely does anyone take the time to sit down and wonder WHY one of the twin flames decides to be a runner, and what can be done about it.
The first advice is stop chasing the runner.
I know it's painful. And I know this, because I, myself have done it.
Stop chasing the runner and stop trying to get them to give you answers. The reason for this is because they run away from your further. In their mind, the twin flame runner is SO TERRIFIED of love coming true for them because as the un-awakened twin—they often live in fear.
They are afraid and terrified of everything, and don't give themselves the chance to taste a beautiful life with you.
Every since meeting YOU, the awakened twin flame, their life hasn't been the same.
Their old habits have started to fall away, friends and family don't make sense anymore, and their old belief system is being challenged.
For someone that is living deeply in fear, you can almost see why this is so terrifying. They are wondering what is happening, why they have you on their mind all the time.
Unfortunately, instead of stepping up to the plate and dealing with the problem, they decide to tune out what THEY perceive to be the problem—which is you.
Every now and then, the runner DOES panic.
They think you have forgotten about them and left them behind, and they feel like a deer caught in the headlines. They will make contact to see what you're up to, and what is going on.
A large part of them fears you would never love them for them, if only you JUST KNEW what they were like.
Which is the very reason it makes it very simple for them to push you away because you can end up thinking “they pushed me away” instead of you commenting on their character, which would be the last straw that broke the camel's back type of thing.
The twin flame runner is more likely to jump out of a plane without a parachute than to jump into love with his or her twin.
It is very unfortunate and sad that by the time the twin flame runner wakes up, and often due to a major catastrophe in their life, the awakened twin who got absolutely tired of waiting, decided to move on with their life.
Nothing, and I mean nothing, can be more soul-crushing and destroying for the twin flame runner to realise that something was right in front of them and they missed out on the best thing of their life.
If you are wondering “does my twin feel how I do?”
They probably feel it even more than you do. Your twin is you, so he/she feels exactly what you do. You are on their mind all the time, and they love you behind 10 concrete walls, as much as you love them. They are simply terrified to show it. Let the runner twin run, eventually when they turn around and you're not there—they will be left to deal with the consequences.