The interesting thing about a twin flame runner is that they love you as much as you love them, if not more.
The trouble is that on a conscious level they are asleep and don't know what to do about it. It's like an enslaved person not knowing that they are enslaved.
Twin flame runners are terrified, suspicious, and question everything that comes to them, because they aren't sure that anything that feels so beautiful, pure, and divine can actually be true. They judge and question how their awakened twin flame feels for them, and chalk it down to a lie. Essentially, the twin flame runner is busy living a lie, and there is nothing you can do about it.
So what happens when your feelings overwhelm you and your twin flame runner does not respond?
Firstly, understanding THEIR position makes it easier for you. It lends you the situational perspective not to bombard them with anything more than they can handle, and forces you, and essentially serves as a blind reminder to keep focusing on yourself on a regular basis.
I understand the desire and need to reach out to your twin flame, even if it is to say hello because the soul wants to chat to it's other half, and doesn't realise why the human form is being annoying, and awkward about it.
In the beginning, I was torn if my twin didn't respond favorably. As the years have gone by, and I have done spiritual and energy work on myself—I learn that perhaps my twin flame’s rejection of me is my OWN rejection of self. Anytime my twin doesn't respond, I have never held it against them. I simply get on with my day and never lose sleep over it. It takes a lot to get to that point in all honesty.
Dealing with the twin flame runner is rather simple. As your twin is you but in another body, just learn to focus on yourself no matter how hard it is.
The chaser is ACTUALLY the runner because they are choosing to focus on their other half, instead of doing the hard task and focusing on themselves.
When you are spiritually evolved to a level that focusing on yourself becomes second nature to you, you automatically start to draw in your twin flame because they feel the need of reaching out to you.
Remember, that although you may share a soul with your twin flame, the important part is that over eons, both of you DID split into individual souls, yet you both have your own life lessons to learn.
One of you, most likely you, reading this—will be much more evolved that your matrix asleep twin.
That doesn't mean they are a bad person. It just means that they will take more time to awaken and possibly put in artificial measures of time to justify to themselves why they have deep feelings for you eventually (oh, it's because I have known you for SO long). Its their defense mechanism, so just let them have that defense mechanism for now.
All within our life’s journey we will face so many obstacles that will challenge and question everything we believe, and everything we do. A true twin flame is your inner spiritual anchor that is there to remind you of the reasons why you exist, and have continued to exist within this universe.
Through your evolvement, your twin flame has been a true reflection of yourself when you are not able to look within – you look upon them to see where you are within your own journey, where you have been, and where you are going.
Many of us need that reflection that a true twin flame brings because it makes it easier for us to know where we come from, and where we are heading, in a universal level.
Take what has been most useful and effective for you through out your journey, and continue to implement what you know, and what works.
We can look upon a twin flame runner, or a twin flame that is not there for us at the moment for whatever reason, and we can look upon them within a positive light or a negative light.
It’s your decision.
Chose it wisely because it effects your spiritual energy, and your overall journey.